Most people put more research into a dishwasher than into choosing who sells their house.

That is not a criticism of sellers. It is that the differences between agents are genuinely hard to see from the outside, and everyone in a listing appointment is friendly and confident.

Here is what actually separates them and how to find out which one you are sitting across from.

The single biggest trap

Let me start here because it costs sellers more money than everything else combined.

Do not hire the agent who suggests the highest price.

Anybody can say a big number. It costs nothing to say and it feels wonderful to hear, and a certain kind of agent knows exactly that. Then the house sits, and six weeks later the conversation is about a price reduction, and you are further behind than if you had started correctly.

The market decides your price. Not your agent, not you, and not the number on a listing appointment worksheet. An agent who tells you what you want to hear in order to win the listing is not on your side, whatever the presentation felt like.

What you want instead is an agent who shows you the closed comparable sales, explains the condition adjustments, and gives you a range they can defend. Then ask them directly: what would make you recommend the top of that range, and what would push it to the bottom? A good agent answers specifically. Pricing a home in Tippecanoe County covers the underlying method.

Interview more than one

Two at minimum, three is better.

The value is not in collecting quotes. It is that hearing three people analyze the same house reveals enormous differences in how carefully they are actually thinking. One will have walked your property and noticed things. One will hand you a generic packet. That contrast is impossible to see when you only meet one person.

Interview them separately and ask each the same questions. You will learn more from where the answers diverge than from anything in the presentations.

Local really does matter here

Greater Lafayette is not one market. West Lafayette and Lafayette behave differently. In-town and rural price by different rules. Campus-adjacent property runs on the university calendar in a way the rest of the county does not.

Pricing accurately requires knowing what has closed near you, in what condition, and why the outliers were outliers. That is not in any database. It is accumulated from working in those neighborhoods.

So ask: what have you sold near here in the past year, and what did you learn from those sales? An agent who works your area will have specific answers. One who does not will speak in generalities.

This matters most on anything unusual. Acreage, older in-town homes, property near campus, and anything at the upper end all reward genuine local familiarity. Rural and acreage property and historic homes and districts both have their own dynamics.

Ask to see the actual work

Marketing gets described in every listing presentation and described well by almost everyone. Look at the output instead.

Ask to see recent listings in your price range. Not the showpiece property. Recent, comparable ones.

Then look honestly. Are the photos professional or phone snapshots? Is there video? A floor plan? Is the description written thoughtfully or filled with tired phrases? Are all the rooms photographed, or does the listing quietly skip the ones nobody wanted to show?

That is the most reliable preview you will get of what your listing will look like, and it takes five minutes to evaluate. Listing photos and video covers what good looks like, and how listings debut strong covers why the first week matters so much.

Find out who actually does the work

Not a trick question and not a criticism of teams. I lead one.

The point is that you should know how it functions. Who is at your showings. Who calls you with feedback. Who negotiates your offer. Who you reach on a Saturday when something goes sideways.

Teams work well when roles are clear and the specialists are genuinely specialists. They work badly when the person who won the listing disappears afterward and you never quite know who is handling your sale.

Ask directly. A straight answer is a good sign either way.

Judge the honesty, not the enthusiasm

Here is what I would actually be listening for in a listing appointment.

Did they tell you anything you did not want to hear? A house that needs work, a price expectation that is too high, a room that will not photograph well. An agent who walks through your home and finds nothing to mention either was not paying attention or is not going to be straight with you later.

Did they ask about your situation? Timing, where you are going, what matters most to you. The right strategy for someone who needs speed differs from the right strategy for someone who can wait, and an agent who never asked cannot possibly have tailored anything.

Did they explain their reasoning, or just assert conclusions? You want someone who can show their work, because you will be making decisions together for months.

What to ask about the plan

A few questions that consistently reveal preparation.

What should I do to this house before we go live, and in what order? A useful answer is specific to your home. The 30-Day Sale-Ready Plan is the framework I use.

What is your recommendation on timing, and why? The best time of year to list covers the seasonal considerations.

How will we know within the first two weeks whether the price is right, and what will we do about it? This one separates people who have a plan from people who have a hope. When to reduce your price covers the signals.

What is my likely net at your recommended price? Ask for the worksheet. Seller net proceeds explains what belongs on it.

And read the agreement they hand you before signing. Ask how long the term runs, how to cancel it, and what is included in the marketing rather than billed separately.

The friend question

People ask me this quietly, usually because they feel guilty about it.

Hiring someone you know is fine when they would genuinely be your choice on the merits. It goes badly when the relationship makes the hard conversations harder, and the hard conversations are the entire job. Telling someone their price is too high or their house needs work is difficult with a stranger and much more difficult with a cousin.

If you would not hire them without the relationship, do not hire them because of it. And if you would, then you have both a good agent and an easy decision.

The underlying point

What you are actually hiring is judgment. Anyone can put a home in the MLS. What you are paying for is someone who knows what your house is worth to the specific buyers in this market, what to fix and what to leave, how to read the first two weeks, and how to handle the negotiation when an inspection comes back with a list.

That judgment is local, it is specific, and it is the thing that separates a sale that goes smoothly from one that does not.

If you would like a straight assessment of your home and what selling it would actually look like, start with a real-comps home value estimate, or interview me alongside two others. I am comfortable being compared. No pressure either way.